![]() ![]() Often, dating handbooks paint a women’s natural benevolence as a flaw. What Dating Strategies Are We Teaching Women? ![]() ![]() Of course, such a fraught landscape comes with various attempts to help guide us, but many of these books give the same clichéd advice I was fed through popular magazines in my early teens: lessons on “the chase” and how “to play the field” - the same destructive advice that turns love into a game with more losers than winners. Which behaviors are being normalized? Are we damaging or improving the landscape for forthcoming generations through our behaviors? And can any of this be changed? Some wonder whether this new age is teaching us to think differently about love. We’re living in a new age, one where the classical courtship we crave has been replaced with new ways of connecting. Many of us look for aid in finding it, through books, peers, or online. We all want love, and we all feel it, whether requited or, more often, not. ![]()
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